Thursday, October 18, 2007

1st Oct 2007, Monday @ 10:59 A.M.

Well, what's the purpose of reading my blog?

Have you guys ever thought about it?

Yes, I have.

I want to know how my friends getting on.

that's why I read what they write.

Ya, you do think about it huh.


As I named this blog "whoever's comfort zone".

Does that mean I can't write anything unhappy?

Hehe, don't worry! I'm not going to do that.


Alright, let's make a quick start.

As usual, I'm going to share.

Hehe, don't you ever think that I want to share "Secret" huh.

I know you all love that, so I'm not going to do that though it's nice indeed.


The film I've watched is Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events.

It is a 2004 Academy Award-winning film,

directed by Brad Silberling.



I borrowed the DVD from a friend named Black.

About 15 of them I've borrowed, but I like this the most.

That's why I'm sharing.


It is based on the first three novels,

The Bad Beginning, The Reptile Room, and The Wide Window, in Lemony Snicket's book series.



As in the books, exactly where and when the story takes place is unclear.

The film reflects this ambiguity in its art direction;

it was praised for its creative sets and costumes,

all of which have a darkly expressionistic and gothic feel,

leading to a highly unusual and creative visual motif.


The film is narrated by Lemony Snicket,

who occasionally appears in silhouette,

writing the story on a typewriter in what appears to be the interior of a clock tower.


Inventive Violet Baudelaire, her intelligent younger brother Klaus and their sharp-toothed baby sister Sunny are orphaned when a mysterious fire destroys their parents' mansion.



They are placed in the care of bank manager Mr. Poe, who entrusts them to their "closest relative."


However, misinterpreting the phrase, Mr. Poe chooses the relative who lives the shortest distance away, the obnoxious Count Olaf.



Olaf promises to take care of the orphans "as if they were actually wanted" but in fact, he is only interested in the huge fortune that Violet will inherit when she turns 18.



In the meantime, he treats them like slaves.


This is just the very beginning of the story...


I'm so sorry if you're expecting me to tell you more.



Because I'm not going to do so.

Just watch it !

Buy it or borrow it, whatever.

I bet you won't regret. (",)

5th Nov 2006

a very nice song to recommend...

Now i realised that i'm a girl who likes sharing a lot,
i like to share nice songs, nice movies, nice spots, etc.
Except my burdens and whatever upsets me.

wah... now you know how nice of being my friends right?
it's not too late to compensate me, treat me dinner will do.
wahahaha....

i think this is not a new song, but i heard it few days ago,
and i love it very much.

it's meaningful, touching.... the lyrics... the rhythm...
look for it on the internet if you're free,
i bet you won't regret.

my friend recommended me a new movie, "death note"
i trust his judgement, so i bought the dvd and watched it,
it's really *^%$#@!^~
made me speechless...
i like it veryX100 much...
the director must be a genius!

now, here goes the lyrics of the song i fond of (recently) ....

You Don't Miss Your Water (Till The Well Runs Dry)
As I sail with you across the finest oceans
On our way to find the key to our emotions
Together will me move the clouds to brighter days
Some people question what I say
Try to break up you and me

But I know this love between us is growing stronger
You can call me whenever, from wherever just remember that
I'll be there through all the stormy weather
Us break up never, no, we'll be together forever

You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry
But I believe so strongly with you and I
Can somebody answer me the question why?
You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry

As I close my eyes, sit back while reminiscing
Of when we used to fuss and fight but end up kissing
There may be sad and painful times along the way
But in my heart you'll always be everything and more to me

For I know this love between us is growing stronger
You can call me whenever, from wherever just remember that
I'll be there thought all the stormy weather
Us break up never, no, we'll be together forever

You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry
But I believe so strongly with you and i
Can somebody answer me the question why?
You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry

For you are always on my mind

You are always on my mind
You are always on my mind
You are always on my mind

You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry
But I believe so strongly with you and I
Can somebody answer me the question why?
You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry

You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry
But I believe so strongly with you and I
Can somebody answer me the question why?
You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry

Listen, If you ever get the feeling
You when playing start cheating me
But you don’t miss your water until the well runs dry

17th March 2006 23:49

here goes the story able to make me cry....

麥當勞的故事

在我家附近,開了一家新的麥當勞。

耀眼的M字招牌,馬上變成了一個顯目的指標,無論是指引車子裡的司機,還是指引肚子裡的蛔蟲。

而我,因為一直在外面求學的關係,所以始終沒有機會踏入這間距離我家僅只100公尺的世界級小,麥當勞。

直到那一天,我回家的那天,媽媽剛好回了澎湖,姐姐則去參加台南的朋友婚宴,平常食物香氣不斷的廚房,登時空蕩起來。偌大的家,剩下我一個。於是,我下了決心,踏入就在我家隔壁的黃色大,麥當勞。

推開門,裡頭還是那樣清潔的讓人心曠神怡,麥當勞叔叔掛著親切的笑容迎接著我。於是,我點了一號餐,非常輕鬆愉快的找了一張靠窗的座位坐下,吃著美味的漢堡,思考著麥當勞為什麼會風靡全台灣的原因。因為麥當勞行銷策略是針對「小孩」吧。再也沒有什麼偉大的願望,能比得上小孩滿足笑容的。

突然,我看到了兩個人,他們在一瞬間就吸引了我的注意力。因為他們跟這間整潔嶄新的建築物,一點都不搭配。他們是一個父親,還有一個小孩。父親身上泛黃的襯衫,東破了一個洞,西破了一個洞,沾滿了不知道是汽油還是黑油的油漬,一張臉略顯消瘦,尤其是被太陽不斷洗禮的皮膚,更顯得他飽受風霜,如果我沒猜錯,他應該是個工人吧。而小孩跟他父親比起來,並不算太瘦,但是若是跟麥當勞裡頭,任何一個握著飛機跑來跑去的小朋友來比,他實在太黑太小了。

兩個人,慢慢的走進了麥當勞,從他們遲疑的步伐和四處張望的態度,可以猜測他們應該是第一次來到這種速食店。

「我們要一份薯條,一杯可樂,還要兩個豬肉堡...」父親結結巴巴的說著,

「總共150元。」店員臉上依然是麥當勞招牌微笑。

「150元?好...好...」父親低下頭,用那隻又黑又髒的手,在口袋裡不斷的掏著,叮噹叮噹,一口袋的銅板,都撒在潔白的點餐桌上。父親拿著銅板,慢慢的數著。

「10元,20元,30元,40元,50元,55元,56元....」店員倒還沈的住氣,依然微笑,等待著顧客將手上的零錢點清。可是我已經看到幾個排在他們後面的年輕人,露出了不耐煩的表情。

突然,原本都不說話的小朋友,拉著父親髒破的襯衫,嚷著,

「爸爸,我要那個車車,人家要那台車車....」

「車車玩具啊?」父親瞇著眼睛看了看那台玩具,又轉頭問店員,「請問加這玩具要多少錢?」

「要50元喔。」店員聲音微微提高,不知道是提醒父親,他手上的零錢可能不夠支付,還是為了讓他知難而退。父親沒有說話,只是露出了為難的表情。幾條皺紋被擠在他烏黑的額頭上,嘴角卻揚起了一陣苦笑。這樣的表情,好深刻。讓我幾乎忍不住,想放下了手上的漢堡,拿出還在我口袋的五十元。可是最後,我卻沒動,因為我想知道父親的選擇。

「那.....小姐,抱歉....我不要那個漢堡了,一個漢堡就好了。」

店員遲疑了一下,很快的按下更改鍵,一個可能是父親這輩子唯一一次吃到的漢堡,變成了一個玩具汽車。也在這個時候,父親點完了錢,他收起了僅剩在桌上的兩三個零錢,

一手端起那個木質的盤子。另一手則牽起了小朋友的手。慢慢的走向他們的座位,那瞬間,我看到了身為父親的驕傲。原本屈婁的身體,突然變得挺拔起來。

而他的小朋友好興奮,不斷的跳著笑著,發出撲嚕撲嚕的汽車聲音,玩著他的新玩具。

我睜著眼睛,偷偷地看著他們。父親什麼都沒吃,只是掛著非常滿足的微笑,看著興奮異常的小朋友,一會玩玩具,一會抓著薯條,用各種姿勢品嚐這份得來不易的美食。

我靜靜的看著,突然發現,我必須找個地方,找隻筆,或許是網路,記載下當時父親的表情。他瞇著眼睛,非常疼惜的看著他眼前的小朋友,那幾道皺紋又在他的額頭上縮緊,只是這次,他是真的笑了。不再是苦笑。而是一種非常滿足的笑容。為什麼麥當勞能夠席捲全世界?因為父母的愛,能夠席捲全世界。

我彷彿感受到了他那份滿足,低下頭,笑著把我手上的漢堡吃完。

【後段】

我吃完了漢堡,終於拿出了我口袋裡的五十元,走到了櫃台。

「請再給我一個漢...」我話才說到一半,卻發現...那個年輕的女店員已經從後面端出了一個剛出爐的漢堡,對我微微一笑,然後離開櫃台,走向父子坐的那張餐桌。走過我身旁的時候,她還不忘俏皮的眨了眨眼睛。「這個漢堡,已經有人訂了。」

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看完故事後有沒有甚麼感想呢?

Thursday, June 28, 2007

长距离恋情能维持吗?

异地恋人如何维持感情?谈恋爱应该是什么样子?每天下班,去接她,然后一起去市场买菜。吃过饭后,一起去夜市逛逛,在学校公园里手牵着手散散步。天黑了,去咖啡厅里听听音乐,品尝着蓝山深情相望。然后在路灯下,两个人肩并肩的倒影渐渐拉长。送她到家门口之后,依依不舍,难舍的吻别。回到家后再打个电话,约好明天几点什么地方见面......

那结婚应该是什么样子?下班回家后一起做饭,一起品尝劳动成果,男的坐在沙发上看球,女的收拾完屋子,给他端上来几盘水果。或者一起为某个长篇的连续剧或悲伤,或感动,或兴奋。有了孩子,一起照顾,逗宝宝玩。一起给宝宝换尿布......

这些才叫谈恋爱?才叫作婚姻?那么异地恋人,异地夫妻该如何相处,如何维持感情?除了无限的思念,他们的平常生活里没有对方的影子。

该是时候进入正题了,我个人是觉得长距离恋爱不会长久。人很脆弱,人的一生起起落落, 两个恋人分割两地。遇到瓶颈时怎么办?尤其是女生特别脆弱,她需要人安慰,需要人抚平她的伤痛。这也是最容易出轨的时候了。。。

Sunday, June 17, 2007

~离别愁~


我伤心了,真搞不懂为什么会这样。从前我以为自己不会再因为要分开而伤心,没想到会是为了你们。小时候经历了太多次离别,我的心伤透了,到现在还不确定它是否痊愈了,由或者只是暂时封闭起来,没头绪。。。

一次又一次的聚会,聚餐,让我感觉温暖,甚至感动得想哭泣,分开的时候多希望时间能停住别走。也许对你们来说没什么,但那些都是我的宝藏。再过两个月我们将各分东西,回国的回国,出国的出国。。。你们是否会偶尔想想我,很抱歉,也许在你们的回忆里只有我的怪脾气和臭架子。。。

Weicheng, 对你没有多大的感想,因为你把心思都放在你女朋友身上了,忽略了我们大家。哈哈,其实有啦,觉得你是个不小器的男生,还蛮玩得起的,跟你开多大的玩笑应该都没关系吧。

Zhiqiang, 一个沉溺要虚拟世界里的小男生。。。若他穿上古装,也许你真的会以为他是从古代来的,可以跟你吟诗作对呢。哈哈哈!

Billy, 一个智慧型的领导者,我个人真的很欣赏。。。我想你和我一样都有很困苦的童年生活,所以在某方面我们是相似的。。。

William, 你像个大孩子,四肢发达,但。。。经历的不够多,像根温室里的小草。外表冷静但其实内心杂乱。哈哈哈!你让我影响最深刻的是你说笑话的时候。。。再来要谢谢你曾经当过我的听众。。。

Tsyr Huey, 在她身上,我看见从前的自己,很多东西都看在眼里,放在心里。不懂得放开,不懂得睁一只眼,闭一只眼,结果只是自己很累,别人心碎。。。但,我知道这一切都会过去的,我不也是这样过来了吗?

Qiuxiang, 影响最深刻的应该是你的名字吧!唐伯虎点“秋香”!你啊,太在意别人怎么样看你了,所以你不开心。我和你合作过好几次,每一次我们的意见或其他方面都会有出入,但都没关系,那并不会影响我们大家的感情。最后,我想告诉你的是,觉得是对的就去做啊,何必管别人怎么样想,别人的想法不等于你的想法。加油哦!

Magdalene, 知道吗,人在每一个阶段都会把自己需要的东西重新排列。也许现在这个阶段,你着重的不是学业吧。这并没有错哦!也许你有更重要的东西需要你花更多的心思在那里,只是你不懂得平衡而已。而别人又用错了方式劝你。。。别气馁。。。加油!

Shirley, 我们的千金啊!别再作弊了!不用功念书,考试的时候就冒险作弊。上得山多终遇虎啊!她拥有我没有的自信,敢怒敢言,有种天不怕地不怕的感觉,她拥有很好的社交手法,朋友好多。有时候觉得她很三八,但,从另一个角度来看,她的特质是很多人都做不到的。你需要她帮忙的时候,我想她就是那个挺身而出的人吧!

Nicole, 来自书香世家,父母都是教职员,有很好的家庭及教育背景。是个令人羡慕的独身女。但有怪脾气哦!没关系啦,我也有很多怪脾气。

Baby Snow, 我个人很欣赏的一个女生。她最大的优点就是不会管别人的眼光,随心所欲,她这一生应该没多少遗憾吧。

Jefferey, 不懂得平衡自己的生活,但最大的优点就是乐于助人。但它的优点就是他的缺点。就是因为太乐于助人,所以把自己的生活重心模糊了。

Su Teng, 因为这世界的现实而不安的女人。习惯了家人的呵护备至,所以现在碰到难题时会手忙脚乱,不懂得解决。

See Wei, 典型的小女人,娇滴滴的,很惹人疼。

Junyce, 一个好年轻但又不失成熟的女生,这两年四个月里看到了她的蜕变。她经历了更残酷的事实,看到了更丑陋的人心,因此而明白了更多道理。希望她会继续坚强下去。

Kai Ling, 我们的开心果,总是把笑容挂在脸上,好满足的样子。你一定有你的不愉快吧。幸好有你弟弟保护你。要继续开心哦!

不管怎样,也跟大家相处了两年多,对大家应该也有多少的认识吧。以上纯属个人观点,凭自己的观察而得出的结论。俗话说得好“人非圣贤,谁能无错”,有缺点是正常的,犯错也不是没道理的啊。我只是很不愿意看到犯错的人被排斥而已。难道他们不值得得到我们的接受吗?人海茫茫我们却能在这里认识,应该好好珍惜吧。。。